a therapist said “waiting for someone to act correctly is a disrespect to yourself. you’re compromising your worth just because someone can’t fully afford it” and i just…whew
as an “actual” private person, i can over confirm that people becomes very odd when they can’t figure you out or what’s truly going on in your life and beyond the surface. most importantly, normalize lying to people who ask too much about your private life. people be weird asf.
Becoming less reactive is a huge part of growth & decreasing stress. If you let everything get you worked up, you’ll damage your mind, body & spirit.
I really believe that God will wait to bless you in certain ways until certain people are removed from your life. It’s divine protection from not only yourself, but the gift that comes from the calling on your life.