Just me ranting so don't pay attention but it truly infuriates me that it took me years to like myself a tiny bit and that a bunch of people just destroyed that self-love in mere weeks by refusing to communicate/apologize for their actions.
"Haha, you're so kind, it takes a lot for you to lose your cool and when you do it's brutal!!"
And then I actually lose my cool and suddenly it's "*gasp* Why are you acting like this, you're so ungrateful/toxic... :////"