Your wife has the capacity to cheat on you, and she will do it smoothly without you even knowing.
But she's not doing it because she needs the chiidren to grow up under their father in peace.
If you're a careless cheating husband & you think that your wife is perpetually stupid or ignorant, you'll suffer badly in your old age.
She will use you to raise your children and would wait till they're fully independent.
Your children will not abandon her.
She'll enjoy your sweat while you suffer.
And she go use your eyes do whhheeeeen.
End.
Please marry your spec.
Marrying a person and then publicly reminding everyone that they were never your spec is embarrassing and cruel.
That’s not honesty. That’s humiliation.