Date a 10, tell no one. Get promoted, tell no one. Buy land, tell no one. Go on a vacation, tell no one. Trust me, Life is peaceful when no one knows anything about you.
CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG BUT, As a man, No one cares about you. Not your wife. Not your family. Not your friends. Not your workmates. Nobody. People act like they care, but deep down, they don't. You are on your own. Always on your own.