I hope to get married one day but my marital vows will be heavily edited.
"To love and to hold; in sickness and in health" that I can proclaim.
But you see "till death do us part"? Count me out.
I can currently think of 6 things that can do us part asides death.
Rufai: You hardly offer solutions. For instance, while speaking recently you talked about adding extra megawatts and targeting 10,000 megawatts. Can you give a breakdown of how you are going to achieve that 10,000 megawatts of electricity?
Peter Obi’s response: Somebody said, “If I don’t give you power, don’t vote for me.” Did he tell you how he is going to give you power? So why must my own be in the marketplace?
I’m a liberal. I’m a feminist. I suffered postpartum depression with my first child. It was terrifying. I was fortunate enough to have a doctor listen to me. I recovered. Some women don’t recover. Some carry the depression longer. Some women don’t have a support system. This is never an excuse for murder.
Lindsay Clancey is not innocent. She’s either guilty of murder outright or not guilty by reasons of insanity. Either way, she belongs in prison.
Women cheering for her like some kind of hero hurts women. Please stop.
Good morning Ben🤗
Some of us started with BIG dreams, but the system showed us shege.
I studied French (first degree) because I wanted to build a career in an international organisation. During NYSC, I got the opportunity to serve at the ECOWAS Parliament.
To me, that was huge. I served with my whole heart.
I respected people. I worked hard. I built relationships. My direct boss liked my work, and I started imagining that after NYSC, I could return as an ad hoc staff and eventually build my career there.
I had a woman in leadership I looked up to. I thought, “I want to become like her one day.”
When NYSC ended, I applied for every opening I saw at ECOWAS. Rejection after rejection.
One day, my boss told me something, She said she would have liked to help me get into ECOWAS, but she did not think I was “strong enough” for the politics of the organisation.
And she was right, the politics in ECOWAS was real. Most of the NYSC members that got adhoc staff roles either slept with a director or paid millions.
I later worked as a personal assistant to a contract staff member at ECOWAS. I was still applying. Still trying. Still hoping.
But my own boss started asking me for a relationship. I said no, and he fired me.
That experience shattered something in me. I started asking myself:
“How do you keep dreaming when the system keeps telling you that there's no place for you here?”
Some of us WERE dreaming very big.
I did not become a Virtual Assistant because it was my childhood dream.
I learned VA skills because I needed to survive.
I had worked as an Executive Assistant (onsite) for years, earning ₦80k–₦90k while dealing with toxic environments and bosses.
Then I got my first VA client who paid me more than ₦100k.
That changed something for me.
For the first time, I could see a clearer relationship between the value I provided and what I earned.
Sometimes people changed direction because they needed to survive.
And honestly, I am only now beginning to go back to some of the dreams I had before life taught me to think smaller.
Maybe the problem was never that we lacked ambition.
Maybe some of us simply needed an environment where ambition had room to breathe.
The campaign season is here, and I want to clearly and unmistakably state that President Bola Ahmed Tinubu GCFR is my candidate, and I will support him wholeheartedly.
Please, if you do not wish to see this, I kindly ask you, for the sake of what you value and hold dear, to unfollow or block me.
May God bless you as we mutually respect each other, and may God take away your most loved person or possession if you choose to harass, curse, or abuse me for my openly expressed choice.
Campaign for your candidate, and let me campaign for mine. Live and let live.
I do not hate you, but our choices may differ.
President Bola Ahmed Tinubu GCFR until 2031.
SEYILAW.
If she hadn't done a BBL, she'd have said how every girl just wants to get a BBL and go after rich niggas😅
She needs to learn how to pass a message without being condescending for real.
When have you ever seen Dangote, Elumelu, or any other successful man shame barbers, Uber drivers, male cloth vendors, carpenters, mechanics, or bike men as a way of motivating them to be more ambitious?
But this “I better pass my neighbor” bird-brained behavior no go let women rest. Men will belittle nail techs and makeup artists, then you, a woman, will come online to shame them too. Meanwhile, na the virtual assistants and social media managers dey buy your course. The irony is embarrassing. Foolish girl.
Using loan to campaign for your candidate is funny.
"Nelfund initiative has enrolled 1.8million students"
That's 1.8million students in debt! What's your candidate doing to make sure they have jobs by the time they're out of school huh?
Reasons for my support:
•The Nelfund initiative has enrolled over 1.8 million students
The Nelfund initiative has enrolled over 1.8 million students to have access to interest free loans which would only be paid back two years post NYSC or when they get employed. The best thing is that only 10% of their salaries will go into repayment every month
•The economy is getting better. Foreign reserves are increasing and allocation to state governors have increased significantly. Hope you know they shared 3 trillion this month (the highest ever in the history of Nigeria). If your state is lacking hospitals and good roads, hold your governor accountable
The federal government is doing its parts in construction sophisticated carriage highways across the country like: the Lagos to Calabar one, the Sokoto to Badagry express way, Ilesha to Ibadan express way, Calabar to Abuja Super Highway, and many more.
Local government autonomy too is there, where LGAS will get direct funding to embark on projects. All those your primary health centers, your local government can fund them in peace now.
Unlike Obi that saved all the money meant to develop Anambra in the bank, without any tangible landmark achievements to show for his 8 years in Anambra, Asiwaju is laying the foundation for a better Nigeria.
Please give me five solid things your candidate did during his tenure as a governor.
He is shouting so much that I can barely make sense of what he is saying. Why so much anger and rancher?
God does not call the qualified. He qualifies the called. He that is talking, what qualifies him to lead a church. Penis is not a fruit of the Spirit, so he needs to give us more than that. Male or female, the foundation of God stands sure.
There is neither male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
- Gal 3:28
Anybody can claim to be a minister, and mount the pulpit. But God knows those that are His own. That is why those who feel self righteous are admonished to take heed, lest they fall. 1Cor 10:12.
Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, THE LORD KNOWETH THEM THAT ARE HIS.....
- 2Tim 2:19