After going to trial these last couple of days, I can finally say justice has been served. Both boys were found guilty on murder. I thank God he was by our side the whole entire time. Now my Chris can finally get some rest. Until we meet again my dear brother. ❤️
I don’t judge other women because there’s honestly no point.🤷🏽♀️ We’ve all been in love. We’ve all had our heart broken . We’ve all stayed with someone longer than we should have. We’ve all been stupId for someone. We’ve all settled before. We’ve all been naive. And we’ve all made some mistakes over and over and over again. Ain’t no woman better than the next. Some just learned from their mistakes faster than others.
Your lack of personal purpose is causing your romantic obsession. When your life is full, you're building something, you're learning something, you're creating something, you're serving someone, you don't have time to spend 4 hours analyzing why they used a period instead of an exclamation point. You read the text, you reply, you move on with your day. But when someone becomes the most exciting part of your life, every notification feels life changing, every delayed response feels personal, every conversation gets replayed in your head like it's game film. Suddenly you're looking for a hidden meanings in messages that were probably sent while they were waiting in line at target. You know, it's it's not that you're deeply in love. It's that your brain has nothing more compelling to latch on to. A relationship was never meant to become your identity. It should add to your life, not replace it. The healthiest people I've met don't love less. They they just have more to love. They have goals, they get them out of bed friends, they invest in hobbies. They're excited about purpose. So, you know ironically, that's usually what makes them more attractive too,because they want a relationship, they don't need one to to feel complete .So before you convince yourself that one person is the answer to everything, ask yourself a harder question if they disappear tomorrow what would still make me excited to wake up? Your answer to that question matters a whole lot more than whether they text it back.
If you're ever lost/stranded change your voicemail immediately to say where you are, who you were with, what time you arrived etc. When people notice you're missing and start calling you, the voicemail may just save your life especially if your phone goes dead or you have no service.
Sticking to no contact really helps your self confidence. You realize there isn’t a single person you can’t live without. You had a life before they existed in it, and you’ll have one after they’re gone. Their importance was only informed by your attention.
Losing a relationship really wake you up. You stop chasing love that wasn't solid and start chasing a life that actually make sense. Getting your money right, getting disciplined, fixing your habits, and putting yourself first for once. You realize how much energy you was giving to someone who wasn't even pouring back into you. Moving on ain't about being cold, it's about choosing growth. Because when your life start leveling up, you understand why certain people couldn't come with you.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.
People who've forgiven cheating will never really tell you how broken they feel inside, they'll never discuss how their peace turned into paranoia, how they now flinch every time their partner's phone lights up, or how being online suddenly feels like betrayal, they won't admit that every laugh, every delayed response, and every friendly hello from the opposite gender now feels suspicious.