my therapist told me, "stop assuming people are mad at you. Stop attempting to read people's minds. stop trying to manage the thoughts and emotions of others. let people be in charge of themselves. if they have something to say to you they will and if they don't it is their responsibility not yours. overthinking kills happiness" and that hit me like a brick.
"Just switch jobs if you're underpaid."
Sounds easy, right?
But here's why switching isn't easy anymore:
Most people working in service-based companies or fintechs don't get hands-on exposure to every trending tool that companies are hiring for.
Your project may use only a small part of the tech stack, while job descriptions expect experience with 10 different tools.
So after work, you have to:
- Figure out what's trending in the market
- Learn new tools on your own
- Build side projects
- Practice interviews
- Keep up with your current job responsibilities
You're basically working a second job just to get your next job.
The market is tough right now.
Switching isn't impossible.
But anyone who says it's easy hasn't been through it recently.
Akka, Politics ela vuntai ante.
Fact: ❗during the TRS government, you introduced a policy The 2018 order (G.O. 124) with 95% local reservation. Yet, until 2025, Andhra Pradesh still maintained a 15% non-local quota.
Andhra Pradesh continued with the older 1975 framework for longer and only brought out a fresh, updated order in December 2025 (almost 7–8 years later), bringing its policy in line with Telangana’s model
Pawan Kalyan has only one job to do Panja lanti lean looks loki ravali anthe
Thalaki nundi kaalla gorla varaku Prathi naram naram lo OG raktham paakuthadi just looks tho benchhod🥵
Aa samurai looks lo Thagalabetti dengadam isssaaa Small word
Controversial take but I partly agree with this. While k!!!ing someone is not the solution, I wish she was given enough freedom at home to be open about her choices.
Upbringing and mental illnesses play a major role in society.
Feel sorry for the boys fam.
The internet’s brutal takedown of Alia Bhatt and YRF over Alpha has reached such levels that even the lead actress might think twice before showing up at the premiere 💀💀
This is ruthless Peak detailing !!
UPDATE AFTER A YEAR :
Lover of Magan's wife never got arrested
Magan's wife came out of jail within months
The child she didn't care for and who was brought up by grandparents was snatched away by her after she came out of Jail
Magan's family lost their son
Divya is Free
Virtually every single problem in Indian society can be attributed to the severe attrition of Hindu values and loss of fear of karmic retribution which in turn is because of the communist implemented education system which went on for 7 decades.
And so the secular education is being used by some to hookup, others are using it to scam, some others to go further to conspire and kill naive people.
You will remember that I said that marriage as an institution is likely to slowly become less important in India?
This situation will arise because of lack of pre nup agreements, because of lack of a functioning impartial justice system and other factors.
Eventually (it could be 10 years or it could be 5 years time), pre nup agreements will come in and marriage will become more and more contractual with exacting requirements on both sides.
Many might choose not to marry, others will likely not want to have children.
All these are markers of a society in churning.
Two Indias this week:
In Hyderabad, a road has been named after Donald Trump.
In Chennai, a road has finally been named after Major Mukund Varadarajan, Ashoka Chakra.