I can accept someone being busy. I can accept people going through things. But I can't accept watching you consistently show up for everyone else while making me feel like I'm asking for too much.
I dislike people who present themselves as solid and genuine, yet move through life lying and manipulating others. They sell a clean image to the world while being messy and deceitful behind closed doors.
Gotta STAY CLEAR of folks who don't value the small sacrifices you make... like spending money you barely got, pulling up when you tired, giving advice, carrying their problems, or being the one who always checks in first. Some people only love the benefits, never the person. They'll use your energy just to go pour it into everybody but the one who's actually helping them.
You should never be expected to be the bigger person when you did not create the discomfort in the first place, too many people cause chaos, cross boundaries, and then expect you to swallow your feelings just to keep the peace.