I cancelled a date yesterday because this man had been told several times that Iโm not looking for a relationship , but he insisted he only wanted to take me out as a friend. 5 hours before the date, he called to confirm we were still on. I said, โThanks, I guess Iโll see you there.โ He replied, โIโm excited to have two meals today. After we eat, Iโll eat the other one later.โ I said absolutely not. I donโt know what that means and I donโt want to find out. Iโm not going to be one of the meals in this economy. I cancelled the date. Tell me why this man sent me a text cussing me out this morning? How am I the bad guy? ๐ญ
Iโve made peace with the fact that i may never find genuine love or get married.
Now itโs Work, make money, enjoy life and nurture close friendships.
Lmao.
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Most people judge clothes on Temu by the photos.
Big mistake.
The fastest way to avoid buying clothes that feel like cheap plastic is to ignore the pictures and read the Fabric Composition.
Here's a simple cheat sheet:
Avoid (unless blended well)
โข 100% Polyester
โข 95% Polyester, 5% Spandex
โข Cheap synthetic blends
Run away.
These are usually thin, shiny, trap heat, build static, and often feel like swimwear instead of actual clothing.
Look for
โข Modal (extremely soft)
โข Combed Cotton
โข Ring-Spun Cotton
โข 100% Cotton
โข Viscose/Rayon (soft and smooth)
If you're shopping for specific items:
Jeans:
Search "100% Cotton Denim", "Heavyweight Denim", or "Rigid Denim".
Dress shirts:
Search "Oxford Cotton", "Cotton Poplin", or "100% Cotton Dress Shirt".
Jackets:
Search "Heavyweight", "Fleece Lined", or "Wool Blend".
Vintage clothes:
Look for Corduroy, Heavy Knit, or Washed Cotton.
One last trick that saves me money every time:
Never trust the product photos.
Go straight to the reviews, filter by "With Photos", and look at pictures uploaded by real buyers. That's where you'll see what the fabric actually looks and feels like.
Also look out for promos, you can get stuff for cheap and free packages for a cheap price.
Hope this helps once you understand your size, body, texture or material you're good.