if anyone sees this and is interested in hearing what I sound like, could you let me know your thoughts?
https://t.co/akxgv1OrZb
I've been feeling like my voice is deteriorating over the last months🫠 cold after cold hit me and it makes my throat feel clogged and tight often
@cisheteromale like "just do it anyway" sound super disrespectful in lieu of depression and dysphoria but sometimes that’s all you can really do. It’s the only thing that works for me on the worst days. Just power through and keep a glimmer of hope
@cisheteromale Depression is especially rough. You can at least try discipline and habit-forming. If you can mentally reframe it as a habit and get used to it(~66 days to form a habit) then you might get over the barrier of requiring motivation. I know "power through" is a disrespectful concept
@RealDianeYap@ARABMODER You shouldn’t fetishize people. Like it’s okay to like trans women, but chaser is a fetishist who only wants trans women and often acts creepy and treats them like sex objects. Just fyi if you didn’t know the difference??
@brtrtt@ARABMODER@ro1vyl It can absolutely work if both are respectful. What trans people dislike is when people praise or fetishize their unwanted body parts. Just let them get the surgeries they want and need to be happy. You can be with a trans man and love without being like I NEED to eat you out
@Smollmf@chesburgr_ you can also just bulk with a smaller surplus so that you can control your weight gain better and not gain a disproportionate amount of fat. Gaining fat should be easier than muscles on HRT anyway
@sarvou@PatheticYandere Basically spitting on the grave of every trans person who has had to prove their trans identity or that they are the opposite gender here, for example with "real life experience" tests. I repeat myself, if you feel no reverse dysphoria from HRT then you are trans.