"Innocent until proven guilty" firstly. my p is this mentality of blaming "the devil" when unfavorable situations arise, usually due to the actions of men(or women).
Sexual discipline saves you from a lot in our world. Do not force a thing. If you get rejected, move on.
Do not take advantage of anyone.
Give yourself brain.
Married men said its wisdom to sacrifice your own happiness for your wife nau.
Say your own life should be miserable just because your wife is sad.
That is the advice full-grown men are giving to young single men.
Or a Woman crying over a Man that treats her so well and worships the ground she walks on
It’s always dem dick-heads they cry over and fight hard for.
Lessons to be learnt!
You chose your husband because he was richer.
You wasted 7 years of another man's life then chose a richer man who was financially stable.
Nothing wrong with that because women have a reputation for being ruthless but don't come here and lie to us like we are toddlers.
The Yorubas would say, Omo e o se agbafo, on ko a so wa le. Your child is not a dry cleaner, but keep bringing clothes home.
I've always maintained you cannot properly raise kids without discipline. The collapse of discipline collapsed the society. A child's foundation matters a lot. The foundation of God standeth sure. (2Tim 2:19).
As a parent your silence is complicit. Children are not your buddy, they are your responsibility. Parent them!
A simple rule I live by…
The thing i’ll indulge in… That even when called 40 years later to ask if I did it or not and i’ll have to deny ?
I’ll rather NOT do it.
I no dey follow una do “That was in my past”
Been solid yesterday, today, tomorrow and till eternity.