People are so careless with the way they speak to others, and it bothers me. You can make a passing comment about someone’s appearance, intelligence, personality or something they’re already struggling with, laugh about it and move on with your life. Meanwhile, that person might go home and spend years battling with what you said.
And please, this thing where people use “I’m just being honest” to justify being unnecessarily mean needs to stop. There’s nothing admirable about having no filter. You can tell the truth without being cruel. You can correct someone without humiliating them. You can disagree with someone without making them feel worthless.
What makes it worse is that when people finally speak up about how your words affected them, you turn it around and make them feel stupid for being hurt. “You’re too sensitive.” “It was just a joke.” “I didn’t mean it like that.”
Okay, but you still said it.
I wish people understood that not every wound is visible, and not everybody will tell you when you’ve hurt them. Some people will laugh with you and go home carrying the weight of something you said without a second thought.
Please, be kind with your words. You never really know what somebody is already fighting within themselves, and you should not have to be the reason they start fighting something new.
You don’t have to be a particularly nice person to everybody, but at the very least, be mindful of the things you say to people. Not everything that crosses your mind needs to come out of your mouth.
There is nothing you people have not projected on Neche. Leave her alone, she doesn't even do anything, that was how you guys were harrassing her twin the other day.
The GRIT show on YouTube. 😂
I said Anika is my fave, but I’m also loving Southside. Chigozie, Ugo and Abdulhamid They want to form an alliance so they can take out the girls.
Ugo is telling them that this alliance is dead on arrival because they don’t have the numbers. 😭😭😭
Abdulhamid, why do you want to take out Anika? Ugo is asking him why Anika please help me ask him oh😏Because I don’t seem to remember her offending you.
Anyway, Southside is right. She said they vote with their emotions. Who does that?
After calling them the deciding factors for who goes home, you now want to come and form an alliance with them? Omo. 😭 #theGritrealityshow
Twitter is the place where some of you feel the most valued. Half the things u tweet, you cannot verbally say in your own environment or to those around you.
Someone here said gondesa is waiting for those two to leave the house to hold onto them for clout and relevance and they didn't lie. Godesa is finally out of her cave..yes,she may have shed some skin and lost some weight but she's back with all her venom