Didn’t watch the interview but one thing I know is silent treatment is emotional manipulation, it’s a very toxic trait to have as a partner
It’s power play, you feel hurt and immediately withdraw access to you without explanation or communication leaving your partner feeling lost, and doing what you want which is coming to beg you or ask what’s going on
Adults communicate, you don’t disappear, with time they’ll get tired of coming to you every time, then you’ll brand them as not caring and call them the toxic ones meanwhile you created that person
That Frank’s interview lol if you’re experienced with babes, you’d know PROLONGED “silent treatment” is a very rookie mistake for a woman YOU WANT in your life.
I will not elaborate.
we really need to stop acting like treating people as disposable is emotional maturity. the whole “i don’t care if we stop talking” attitude, especially towards people who have genuinely shown up for you, has always felt like a lack of depth to me.
I'll give married guys some free advice...
Chase your wife around the house. You turn something on in her. You guys become children for just that 4 minutes running around. 😉
Lift her off the ground. It says something to her mind. 😉
But if you want to keep the spark alive in the middle of a busy life, add these to the list:
Take over the dinner chaos. When she is staring down the pot trying to figure out how to feed everyone, stepping in and saying, "I've got this," or just ordering the Friday night pizza or food so she doesn't have to cook, speaks directly to her soul.
Handle the unsexy logistics.
Give her the gift of absolute silence. Sometimes taking the kids out of the house for two hours so she can just exist in a quiet room without anyone needing anything from her.
Flirt with her during the ordinary moments. A wink across the room while you are both cleaning up the kitchen reminds her that underneath the heavy titles of "Mom" and "Dad," you are still just two people crazy about each other.
Notice the invisible labor. Thank her for remembering the scheduling, the grocery, and all the behind the scenes magic that keeps the house running. It bridges the gap and silently says, "I see exactly how hard you work for us."
The movie romance is great, but the trenches of everyday life are where the real connection happens.
Show up for her there.
Dont forget to pray,we live in a generation where our joy gives people problems and our problems gives people joy. Pray against it,pray through it,pray for it,make prayer a lifestyle
Affirm
I decree speed; opportunities are coming with speed, favors are coming with speed, money is coming with speed, my helpers are locating me with speed, my heart desires are getting answered with speed.