“But I’m better than her. I bring more peace than her. I do XYZ.” AHT it does not matter cuz it’s not about what you or the ones before you bring, it’s about him and his character.
I know as women we want to believe we’ll bring out a different side of a man and he’ll change for us but I’m telling you right now he will not. If he treated the women before like trash, unless he did some deep self discovery and healing that’s the same man you’re getting.
I really want women to stop thinking they are the exception to the rule. However that man treats everybody else consistently, is how he will treat you. You are not special. You are not different. You are not going to make him a better man.