I often wonder how many gifted people the world has lost simply because they were born into poverty. People who could have become exceptional at something but never had the money, support or opportunity to explore their abilities.
I actually like the way I am. A little distant, quiet, and direct when I need to be. I don't talk to everybody, I don't force connections, and I damn sure don't try to fit in anywhere I don't feel comfortable.
If I weren't in tech, I'd probably be an interior designer. I love creativity, aesthetics, and the art of making spaces beautiful and cozy. There's something so satisfying about imagining a space and bringing it to life.
If you want to get out of your current life situation, you shouldn’t be worried about how long it will take to change it. You have nothing better to do than to work on something meaningful. Who cares if it takes 12 months or 12 years when it's going to be difficult either way.