Bluestray🌵💙

[Muva! @Kar3ytess]

Think my favorite part of adulthood is that I finally mastered healthy detachment. Everyone could leave and I'd be alright somehow.

[𖦹 ☼ 𖦹 ☼ ⋆｡˚⋆ฺ🪬 @JonAlekss]

Mis años más cogibles se me están yendo sin coger 😭

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

this man on tiktok said “youcannot repair a relationship with a man who believes the problem is always your reaction, never his behavior” and that’s real shit.

[hoochie coochie mane @anotheroutkast_]

Decentering romantic relationships will change your life.

[t o n i b . _ @shesToniMontana]

I’m actually happier alone. Having anxiety and dating is so draining. You’re forever worried about if that person chooses you, if they even like you anymore, or even if YOU feel the same because of certain things you notice…. It’s draining and I prefer not to be drained

[Em. @Emmii_Morake]

Nna once you start feeling like you’re doing me some kind of favour, please don’t. Ngiright kabi. You do NOT need to worry about me.🙏🏾

[flacko! @flacko320]

this whole losing your spark thing is actually real, man. i don’t feel like the same person i was four years ago.

[Em. @Emmii_Morake]

I’m actually offended by the type of men who approach me. Gake happy niks.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

please, please, and please, don't date me if you won't talk with me everyday. there are people you can date, i’m not one of them.

[miss.k🧚🏼‍♀️ @S_makhosazana]

Ke nale potential of being the best wife ever, the problem is banna ba nyela.

[nay🎀. @fineassnayyyy]

my 30s will be my prime. wealthy, healthy & fine as fuck.

[ACE @RealAce404]

At this point I can't even thug it out no more, my heart hurt fr

[Brat. @sadditylyssa]

I only do situationships when i’m the one that don’t wanna commit

[𝖐𝖚𝖘𝖍𝖇𝟔𝖗𝖇𝖎𝖊❦™️ @kushb6rbie]

you couldn’t pay me to redo this year again and it’s not even over yet

[𝓑𝒂𝒓𝒃𝒊𝒆 𝓓z𝒐𝒍𝒍🩰 @ThatgirlLee__]

I've never been so rosterless

[cutiepia @cutiepia8395]

Feminism didn't teach me to hate men.
It taught me not to prioritise them above myself and apparently many men experience that as hate.

[Zii @zinemkhonza]

I'm soo damn sad all the time man. Life really sucks.

[ACHALUGO✨ @JennipherUwa]

It's Saturday
I'm not pregnant
I'm not begging a man to be nice to me
December is 3 months away
I'm not typing a paragraph to anybody's son begging for love
Pampers is not a part of my monthly budget for now
Life's good. 🥂

[Ann ❤️ @Annie_Modiba]

Not an irk, but yesterday I offered a colleague of mine (30M) a lift to get food at FreshStop and asked him to put on his seatbelt. He genuinely didn’t know how to use it 😭 He literally pulled it out, hung it around his body and said, “It is fine like this?”

I had to help him with it and, honestly, that moment was painful to see. Not because he didn’t know how to use a seatbelt, but because it made me realise how easily we take certain things for granted.

So getting back to the irk: NO. Let’s not pick on men for not having cars. You genuinely have no idea what someone’s circumstances are, what they’ve had access to, or what they’re dealing with. A car is a privilege, not a measure of someone’s worth.

[𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐆𝐈𝐄𝐋𝐀 🥷🇿🇦🇫🇷 @tumelomohotji]

Mr president @CyrilRamaphosa your economy is killing us