you can’t look for certain things in people. everyone has a certain place in your life. never force a vibe. either take it for what it is or remove yourself.
adulting is realizing that you have to categorize your friends. it can be tough in the beginning, but some friends are just there for the turn up, aesthetics, etc and some you can actually vibe with on a more genuine level. that’s really just the reality of it tbh.