It must be nice being a man because no matter how mediocre, unremarkable or directionless you are, there’s comfort in knowing someone has been socialized to look at you like a leader.
the problem is that people from the global north think that having a marginalized identity precludes them from being complicit in the exploitation of the global south when that's not how it works. Some of u are monsters regardless of ur race, sexuality, or gender
I just dont care to be super understanding to no man. Its not my ministry. Men truly feel like their needs and wants should overshadow yours. & what they go through should be an excuse for how they act to you.
“The village” never includes y’alls brothers, uncles, dads, grandfathers etc. It’s always women; mostly unmarried women and or older women. The village is specifically set up to siphon more labour from women, to make up for the incompetence of men.
Men really get upset when you verbalize how you'd like to be loved. Sir, no one said you have to be the man to love me. If I say I love flowers and I want my doors open and you view those as a chore more than a gesture.
It's simple...Move
Teach your kids about Winnie Mandela, teach your kids about Funmilayo Kuti. Teach you your kids about Assata Shakur. Teach your kids about black women who fight for freedom.
shaming women for loving men (who wear masks to disguise their poor character) instead of shaming men for having poor character is also internalized misogyny, btw.
hope this helps!
Cheating is a character flaw and I wish people weren’t so forgiving about it. It shows a willingness to deceive, to prioritize short-term desire over integrity, and to disregard the trust someone else has placed in them.
Disgusting.