@AdamSilvera That's creepy. This seriously sounds like the kind of person who shows up on your family member's doorstep and introduces his/herself as the live of your life.
@TheAdamSass Some people are just turds. SYS was huge for me - a cishet wife and mother. Your book opened up a long overdue conversation between me and my brother. It helped me understand why he was so angry when he was younger, and I'll always be thankful for that.