Touko

NSFW. Leather man, submissive, gym gay & cat fanatic. BLUF #4117.
It's pronounced 'toh-koh'. he/him.

[Touko @BootblackTouko]

Start vs end of Easter Berlin. I'm immensely grateful to @SELonSwitch for allowing me to serve him for the weekend, and for making me suffer and marking me so nicely. Thank you Sir. 😊

[UK Fetish Archives @UKLeatherArch]

UK FETISH ARCHIVE OPEN DAY!! THIS SATURDAY!! Bishopsgate Institute, London, EC2M 4QH. See you there!!!

[LeatherHiraeth 🔜 UKBootblack Contest Weekend @SyrBoots]

The UK Bootblack Contest weekend takes place in Manchester 29 & 30 Nov. Last day for discount tickets. Play party, fetish market inc community demos/workshops, bootblack stands and brunch! GREAT Judges & Competitors. Come play, shop & get your gear loved
https://t.co/PQiH84zNrR

[Manchester Rubber @MancRubber]

Get ready for this year's Bootblack UK Contest being held in Manchester on the 29th Nov-1st Dec

Check out the judges, tallys and of course the wonderful contestants 😘

Find out more and get your tickets at https://t.co/qvlvsGhcWB

[Rubber Underground @RubberUndergrnd]

🎄Next event - 13th of December!🎄

We will be back again with a Christmas special! Our charity raffle was so popular last year, that we are doing it again! This year the proceeds of our raffle will go towards @PositiveEast

See you soon for some shiny fun 😈

@RubbermenLondon

[Touko @BootblackTouko]

Tonight at @HunterLDN_X I'll be representing @ProteusLthrUKI to talk about empowerment through kink and community. Hope to see some of you there!

[LondonLeatherMen @LDNLeather]

Tonight’s the night!

Join us from 8pm at Hunter as we open this year’s LLW.

We have a happy hour from 8pm onwards, and the opening of the EMPOWERED / SUBMISSIVE fetish art exhibition. At 9pm we’ll have opening talks by London Leathermen, Proteus and Rubbermen of London

[Touko @BootblackTouko]

@backonmyknees @philford This is me also. Cuffed jackets are the only ones I can really wear 😅

[Touko @BootblackTouko]

@KadeCipher Yes please, dog! 🥵

[Pinsent Tailoring 🌈 @zackpinsent]

This film changed me

[Touko @BootblackTouko]

Looking to sell my Regulation locking leather muzzle!! Slightly smaller than average size to fit my tiny head, and the strapwork has been softened, so it should be an extra snug fit. 😈 £70, London Collection or pay for postage costs. DM if interested, first come first served.

[Touko @BootblackTouko]

Schedule? Schedule.

[Touko @BootblackTouko]

Forgot to post my new tattoo! Yes, I did get this with the goal of being easier to flog. 😜

[Touko @BootblackTouko]

Sometimes I want heavy kink and sometimes I just want a good blowjob, and I feel like the former is often way easier for me to find. 😅

[Peter Cage NYC @petercagenyc]

PSA

For a lot of subs, there's a razor thin line between "I can't believe I'm doing this but it's so hot, I'm having a blast!" and "I'm totally overwhelmed, I do not recognize myself in this behavior, and I want to run away."

A lot of the hottest experiences we have push us right up against that line and keep us there. Some scenes may even nudge the line itself, but it can be like playing with fire. In the worst cases, a sub can get suddenly overwhelmed and freak out, sometimes ending a scene or a whole dynamic without being careful of their partner's feelings, or their own.

It's important for both subs and Doms to be aware of this complexity, and do their best to avoid negative outcomes. Communication is the key here, and the more experience you get, the more aware you'll be of your own emotions. Learn to get comfortable setting boundaries in ways that don't break the scene. Most of all, it's important to be patient and forgiving. As intense as a lot of our play can be, it's ultimately supposed to be fun, and to lift us up!

[Touko @BootblackTouko]

Did not make ut to the gym today, but did spend some time in gear, so not a total waste of a day.

[Into Gimps (11.6k) 🇵🇱🇧🇪 @Bxl_SM]

Leathergimp @tiedlewie having a regenerative nap 😈

[patrick @andhewarhall]

bottoming is great because I love lying down doing nothing