je trouve ça dingue que pour certains hommes, il faille toujours donner l’exemple de « imagine si ça arrivait à ta mère, ta sœur ou ta fille » pour qu’ils prennent conscience de l’impact de leurs actes dégueulasses
It feels like we are. Back then, there was this clear understanding: you don’t stare, you don’t make anyone feel less-than, and you treat everyone with basic human decency. It’s like that sense of empathy was drilled into us—seeing someone different didn’t give you a free pass to act like a jerk. But now? It’s like we’re losing that fundamental respect for each other, or maybe it’s just the rise of people thinking they’re entitled to comment on anything and everything.
Maybe social media has made things worse—people feel bold behind a screen, saying things they’d never dare say in person, and that mentality leaks into real life. It’s almost like we’ve forgotten the golden rule of being kind or even just minding our business.
We’re supposed to be progressing as a society, becoming more open and accepting, but sometimes it really feels like we’re losing touch with that basic empathy. Instead of curiosity turning into rudeness, we should be teaching the next generation that differences are normal, that everyone deserves dignity, and that kindness costs nothing.
c’est tellement bizarre pour moi quand on me dit « on parlait de toi avec untel » « j’ai vu ça et j’ai pensé à toi » « machin t’invite à sa soirée » comment ça j’existe pour de vrai dans l’esprit des gens ? comment ça mon existence est réelle et visible par les autres ???