on the couch with Borokinni

An inspirational writer (onthecouchwithborokinni).
An OAP, writer and content creator (@aestheticsviewswithBorokinni)

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A simple act of kindness can turn an ordinary moment into a beautiful memory.

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I went to purchase something a few minutes ago and decided to go for their cookies.

I was about to pay when the cashier said to me, “Excuse me, you are so beautiful.” I responded with a smile, and she asked me to wait for a minute.

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Boom! The male cashier handed me a cup of lemonade, while the female cashier gave me an extra pack of cookies. This put a broad smile on my face, and I asked myself this question:

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU WERE KIND TO A STRANGER?
T’S NEVER TOO LATE TO START TODAY.

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Sometimes, we have to struggle, learn, and keep trying until we get it right.

In life, too, embrace the process you’re going through. Be patient with yourself as you learn new things because that patience leads to growth and eventually to your success story.

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I went to a restaurant recently and discovered that orders had to be made through a machine. At first, I didn’t really know how to use it and struggled for a while, especially with people waiting in line behind me.

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After a few minutes, I finally understood the process, made my payment, and placed my order.

While waiting for my food, I thought about those few minutes. It reminded me that progress and success don’t come instantly they take process and patience.

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Surround yourself with those who inspire you, challenge you to grow, and support your values. Just like building a strong foundation for a house, surrounding yourself with the right people creates a stable base for everything you want to achieve in life

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The company you keep quietly shapes the person you become, often in ways you might not immediately notice. The people around you influence your thoughts, habits, and even your outlook on life. .

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It opens doors, builds trust, and creates a sense of connection in a world that often feels disconnected.

Kindness costs nothing, but it can mean everything. Always choose to be friendly, you never know who needs it.

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Being friendly is a simple act that carries deep impact. A kind word or gesture can make someone feel seen and valued. It’s not about being overly cheerful, but about showing respect, kindness, and openness.

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In a world that often feels disconnected, friendliness builds bridges and fosters genuine connection. You never truly know what someone else is going through. A friendly attitude can be the difference between someone feeling invisible and someone feeling seen.

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You are the biggest cheerleader you’ll ever need.
You are the architect of your own life, and you don’t need to change who you are for anyone.
You are meant to stand by someone, not wait for them to be your strength.
You’ve got everything you need within you. You are enough

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I know sometimes you doubt your beauty,
You question your intelligence,
And wonder if you're really worthy of that beautiful future you've been dreaming of,
You put your happiness on pause, waiting for someone else to fill that void,

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You look for validation in the compliments of others,
You let go of your dreams just to blend in,
You hide parts of yourself just to be accepted.
But in those moments, I want you to remember:

You are the source of your own happiness.

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Do you know that just a simple "hello" once in a while can bridge the gap in a long-term friendship?

Maintain your love, affection, and care for your friends, and you will discover that they are in your life for so many important reasons

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Say Hello*

They need your hug,
They need your love,
They want your attention,
I need your smile.
They need to know that you still care about me, and that I’m not just a passerby in your life’s history.
They want to be remembered by you.

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Friends are like gold: they cannot be easily found in the market, but when you do find them, they must be kept safe and nurtured.
The heart of your friend is yearning for your attention and communication

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YOU ARE THE SOURCE OF YOUR HAPPINESS, AND THEREFORE, YOU HAVE EVERY REASON TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY BECAUSE LIFE AND THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU NEED TO EMBRACE THAT HAPPY PERSON IN YOU.

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FINDING HAPPINESS

Happiness doesn't come from the number of friends you have,
It doesn’t come from the amount of wealth you possess,
It doesn’t come from the properties you acquire,
It doesn’t come from the certificates you hold,

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It is like a spring of water that flows from the inside. It is the joy of old age and the strength of youth.
Your happiness should not be determined by your past, present, or future.