ngl,this year really woke me up. I see clearly now,who's for me and never was. I learned to set boundaries, stop overextending myself and stop pouring into cups that don't pour back. it's not easy,but it's necessary and peaceful
it’s always funny when someone tries to quietly work their way back into your good graces. no conversation, no accountability, just a sudden increase in friendliness like we’re all supposed to forget how we got here.
They shooting the messenger, but she ain’t wrong. Dating and sex were heavily demonized in a lot of our homes. We were told to stay away from boys and focus on school. The problem is that relationships are a skill set too and many Black women were prepared for careers but left to figure out dating, boundaries, and healthy partnership on our own.
You’ll never hear me complaining about anything i go through anymore. my mind set been different. I turn all of my losses into my lessons and speak peace, prosperity over my life daily. everything i want, i will have. What’s for me will be for me. I’m going to be good regardless.