Neurodivergents will see a text and think, “I’ll reply when I have the energy,” and before you know it, three weeks have passed, and now you have to live with the guilt of being a terrible friend.
I hate that being “neurodivergent” has become like a trendy quirky thing because my ADHD has genuinely plagued my entire life, I don’t know why people WANT to relate so bad, the term “neurospicy” makes me ill
meanwhile, I'm learning how to respond with calm instead of anger. I don't want to be right all the time i want to be understood. I don't want to prove a point, I want to build peace. That's growth for me now.
Trauma is crazy. Cause what do you mean during survival mode I dissociated so hard I can't remember half of my life and I can only sometimes remember most of my memories of someone brings them up. I cannot recall more than half my life like.