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[ISHMAEL 🏴‍☠️☠️🇿🇦🇨🇩🇵🇸 @mr_shimmy]

This is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣 how different countries react to their presidents. Check out Mzansi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🇿🇦

[Botsitso @Botsitso3]

@theeoriginal911 @Thato_Reekae What made you stop?

[TMC💊☣️ @TMCrazzzy]

@MissNtabeni Bought this for 75 bucks.. clean job..

[Prof. Cam Modisane, Ph.D. @DrCamModisane]

Stop whatever you’re doing and watch Million Dollar Secret on Netflix 😭😭😭😭

This show is so good 🔥🔥#MillionDollarSecret

[Just Tumi @TheDeveloperess]

You guys should watch Secret Millionaire on Netflix

[Botsitso @Botsitso3]

@akreana_ I'm married to a man who drinks every day. All the money he works for goes to alcohol. I want to leave him and I don't know where to start. I just wish I could wake up and forget about him. Help me please to remove him from my heart.

[Botsitso @Botsitso3]

@akreana_ I'm married to a man who drinks every day. All the money he works for goes to alcohol. I want to leave him and I don't know where to start. I just wish I could wake up and forget about him. Help me please to remove him from my heart.

[Mankhumiše 🤍 @Ms_Logical]

This

[Gracie @Graciemail1]

One of the best revenge movies 💪🔥

[SURAJ @SURAJ_624]

When Your Local Dictator Is Somehow A Girl Dad 😭

[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

Guys please recommend teas that can help me sleep better😭😭yoh I am struggling but I don’t want to take pills

[kgabonyana @samorataditaba]

How come there isn’t an umbrella term for languages like Setswana, Sesotho, Sepedi and Silozi?

[Slaughter. @BafanaSurprise]

South Africans made a song already about the Zimbabwean cellphone snatcher 😭😭😭😹😹🤣🤣.

This Country is something else, South Africa is really special 😭🤣.

[Ayushi☄️ @iyoushetwt]

Whoever created ilovepdf, you're the real hero.

[ZamaKonke Khuzwayo @ZamakonkeK]

What advice would you give a first time car buyer ?

[The Biblical Man @Biblicalman]

My wife stopped fighting with me in 2018.

I thought we'd finally figured it out.

No more arguments about the dishes. No more sighing when I forgot something. No more asking me to help with things I should've noticed myself.

Peace.

That's what I called it.

For two years I lived in that silence thinking we'd reached some kind of marital maturity.

Then one night—11 PM, night before Thanksgiving—I found her crying in the kitchen.

Making pie crust from scratch because my mother had made a comment the year before about store-bought being "fine, I guess."

I asked what was wrong.

She looked at me like I was a stranger.

"Nothing."

That's when I realized:

She hadn't stopped fighting because things were better.

She stopped fighting because she stopped believing I would ever change.

The silence wasn't peace.

It was resignation.

She'd built her entire life around my absence…while I was still in the house. Eating the food she cooked. Sleeping in the bed she made. Parenting the kids she was raising.

And I called it partnership because I brought home a paycheck.

Most men don't have a marriage problem.

They have an absence problem.

Their wives stopped asking because asking hurt too much.

So they carry it alone. The meals. The schedules. The mental load. The holidays.

And we sit on the couch checking our phones thinking "at least we're not fighting anymore."

Brother, fighting would be better.

Anger means she still believes you could change.

Silence means she made peace with the fact that you won't.

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving.

Your wife is going to wake up before you. Start cooking while you sleep. Manage the chaos while you watch the parade. Clean up while you digest.

Unless you don't let her.

I wrote the protocol for coming home to a marriage you've been absent from.

The 5 stages of wifely resignation.
Why "I'll do better" doesn't work anymore.
The 30-day silent rebuilding system.
The conversation she needs to hear.

It's called "When She Stopped Asking."

Link below if you want it.

But whether you buy it or not—wake up first tomorrow.

[lethu @anZo_maGee]

🔥🔥🔥😭😭Rent free

[. @Shelyksmealot]

My favourite video fr😭

[Botsitso @Botsitso3]

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[Thendo Muloiwa @MuloiwaThendo]

I've said this once, I'm going to say it again. Don't get a TFG account to grow your credit score. Get a credit card paired with your cheque account, do all your swipes on your credit card & pay it back in full on pay day. This will ensure you don't pay a cent in interest & fees