I cannot stress this enough, you have NO IDEA what other people carry with them EVERYDAY. You have NO IDEA what someone’s life is like. Don’t create more pain & stress to others. BE KIND. BE GENUINE. Stop being so mean to people to fulfill whatever it is you don’t like about you.
When I vent, I tell both sides. I never just tell my side cause | always wanna know if I'm tripping or not. I'm not venting for you to be on my side. I'm venting for another point of view.
My nervous system can not deal with liking someone ever again . My soul and my body do not have the capacity to go through what i go through when my feelings are hurt.
Imagine losing access to my laugh, my weird questions, my uplifting reminders, the way I see life, the depth of my conversations, my spark and most of all, my love and presence.
you really can go from “that’s my person” to “we don’t even speak anymore” in the blink of an eye. life doesn’t even give you time to process it sometimes.