some guys donโt just wake up hating on women or carrying resentment, they notice a pattern they can no longer ignore.
they notice when a woman breaks down, life makes room for her. people gather around, support arrives and she is allowed to be soft, confused and unsteady for a while.
but when a guy hits that same wall, the world rarely pauses.
instead, it reassesses his value & suddenly heโs no longer dependable , no longer leading and no longer enough even the people closest to him may start looking for his replacements instead of helping him recover.
so a guy learns early that his struggles are private, his pain is inconvenient & that his only socially acceptable form of survival is silent repair.
โโ I don't have cashapp and I can't buy giftcard I only use venmo or zelle โโ
Na once I tell my other cl say I wan buy am lunch make she collect lunch money send the rest to me ๐
lol a perfect example of static equilibrium and force distribution , they support each other in a loop so the weight is shared across the entire structure. remove just one stick and the whole system falls apart.