Feeling nothing… even when you should?
Your body shuts things down:
• No excitement
• Disconnected feeling
• Just going through the day
Why this happens:
Your nervous system is overwhelmed
So it numbs everything
to protect you
Tool:
Do something small that engages your
Feeling exhausted… even after resting?
Your body is drained:
• Low energy
• No motivation
• Mentally tired
• Numb
Why this happens:
Your nervous system has been in stress mode
for too long
Rest alone isn’t enough
Tool:
Reduce stimulation (noise, screens, pressure)
and work for just 10 minutes
Focus isn’t forced.
It’s trained.
Your brain adapts to what you repeat.
Train distraction → lose focus
Train focus → gain control
Can’t focus even when you try?
Your body is trained for distraction:
• Urge to check your phone
• Jumping between tasks
• Mental fatigue quickly
Why this happens:
Your brain is addicted to stimulation
not sustained attention
Tool:
Remove all distractions
According to game thoery you get two kinds of people you lose:
1. The one who always fights, and ends up isolated.
2. The one who always forgives, and ends up depleted.
Different strategy same result!
So, according to game thoery you get two kinds of people you lose:
1. The one who always fights, and ends up isolated.
2. The one who always forgives, and ends up depleted.
Different strategy same result!
The friend who wins every argument but slowly ends up with fewer friends.
The partner who always has to be right and then wonder why the relationship feels cold.
They think they are winning but strategically they are losing future value.
Game theory exposes why this happens!!
@eternaltxts Noboday knows that and interpret according to their experience of life. However one thought can be that we are here for a limited period and our purpose should be to help each other to get through this life. Helping other actually makes us feel better and peaceful
@Lovandfear The desire to get validation from others keeps us away from deep learning and focus as part of pur mind is consumed looking for validation.
@anxietymsgs Yes if have a affection towards someone, even with your friends, family, even pets. You genuinely care for them and that is love! You fo things to see them happy and that is love!
Why it is happening to me, think like what can I learn from this stressful thing. Even during stressful situation, keeping yourself calm and taking next action is a big win!
You can channel your stress to do things. But chronic stress is dangerous.
You have a presentation, use your stress to do that, channel your stress towards getting things done. To reduce chronic stress, Go to walk, Be positive, instead of thinking
@DearS_o_n You can channel your stress to do things. But chronic stress is dangerous.
You have a presentation, use your stress to do that, channel your stress towards getting things done. To reduce chronic stress, Go to walk, Be positive, instead of thinking
Your mind and body are not separate.
Your body feels
what your mind tries to ignore.
That tension in your chest
isn’t random.
That fatigue
isn’t just physical.
It’s unprocessed signals.
When you don’t listen,
your body speaks louder.