I've been so at peace with myself. I no longer feel the need to peruse any friendship with anyone, i no longer feel the need to over explain myself, i no longer feel the need to protect or respect anyone feelings who cant do the same and i just no longer feel the need to reach out to anyone who doesn't reach out to me and i when i say it's so much better this way. it really is.
I been privately dealing with so much, while publically watching people play with ME, my name and my character. Thing about it, I haven't publically or privately acted out of character yet. That was the OLD me. Sometimes you got to stand on your GROWTH and let what don't KILL YOU, MAKE YOU STRONGER! If you can get through one little thing you can get through the big things. God has really been working on me.
Life is currently teaching me to be silent and accept what is. People will lie on you, twist the truth, blame you for their shortcomings, drag your name and believe things further from the truth even if your character has already been shown to be solid, and you just have to let it happen. Fools argue. Fools are defensive and quarrel and sew discourse. There is no need to clear up anything because God sees ALL and he's the ultimate defender. Be silent in moments you feel compelled to speak on things that are unnecessary to speak on.
You shouldn’t ever be embarrassed about anything you’ve ever been through. What’s tea for others is a testimony for you.‼️ Some people will sit around gossiping about your struggles, your mistakes, your setbacks, and the chapters of your life that were the hardest to survive.
I love being out of the loop & not caring about others business or opinions or personal choices, especially when it has no negative impact. I don’t care if anyone else’s grass is greener, my grass is green because I choose to focus on bettering myself and my life 💗💘💕
Because at the end of the day, the right people fight for you. The right people show up. The right people care, not only when life is convenient, but when it's difficult and messy.
The best decision I ever made was to be quiet. I have nothing to prove. I'm done explaining myself, done convincing anyone of my worth, and done fixing what I didn't break. I refuse to fight for a spot in anyone's life. If you see my value, great. If you don't, that's on you. I'm not forcing anyone to appreciate me, respect me, or treat me right. That's a choice they have to make on their own. Just lessons and a future that no longer includes people who took me for granted
I don't fw ppl like that nomo because a lot of mfs really be around you for information, convenience, or temporary benefits. Not genuine love. Whole time they smiling in your face, they lowkey competing with you, talking about you, telling your business, switching up depending on who they around, & only showing up when it benefits THEM‼️ Everybdy can't go where you going & everybdy don't deserve access to you. Sometimes being alone really be safer than fake love 🤞🏽💯
Y'all be thinking everybody that stay in the house be sad or miserable. Nah. We in here at peace, healing, getting our sh*t together, protecting our energy, and staying far away from the drama.Quiet don't mean lonely...sometimes it just mean grown AF
At some point you just got to tell ppl, I love you and I'll love you forever, but I'm no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me, and because of that I have to let you go. I'm not even asking you to change, I just need you to understand, that you can keep doing what you wanna do and how you wanna do it, you just can't do that with me. You gotta love ppl from a distance to protect your peace