Husband and wife are getting all snugly in bed. The passion is heating up. But then the wife stops and says "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."
The husband says "WHAT??"
The wife explains that he must not be in tune with her emotional needs as a Woman.
The husband realizes that nothing is going to happen tonight and he might as well deal with it. So the next day the husband takes her shopping at a big dept. store. He walks around and has her try on three very expensive outfits. And then tells his wife. We'll take all three of them. Then goes over and gets matching shoes worth $200 each. And then goes to the Jewelry Dept. and gets a set of diamond earrings. The wife is so excited (she thinks her husband has flipped out, but she does not care). She goes for the tennis bracelet. The husband says "but you don't even play tennis, but OK if you like it then lets get it."
The wife is jumping up and down so excited she cannot even believe what is going on. She says "I am ready to go, lets go to the cash register."
The husband says," no - no - no, honey we're not going to buy all this stuff."
The wife's face goes blank.
"No honey - I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while."
Her face gets really red and she is about to explode and then the Husband says, "You must not be in tune with my financial needs as a Man!!!"
I'm never allowing any woman I'm serious about to wear skimpy or revealing clothes when we're heading out together. There is no world in which I'd be comfortable with other men seeing your body or you dressing in a way that makes you look like a prostitute, even though I know you're not.
When I love a woman, one of the first things that comes to mind is protecting her. To me, part of that is protecting her dignity. I want you properly dressed and decent when we're going out. You don't have to be half-naked to look beautiful, hot, or attractive.
You can wear all the skimpy and revealing outfits you want, or even walk around completely naked, when it's just the two of us at home. I have no problem with that. But once we're stepping out together, I expect you to be properly dressed.
No responsible man wants his partner to be unnecessarily sexualized in public. What exactly is there to gain? Why present your woman in a way that invites people to objectify her.
The funny thing is you'll often see a woman almost naked while the man she's with is fully dressed. Why isn't he dressing seductively too? Oh, I get it. You're the one expected to be sexualized.
"Dress hot for me."
Meanwhile, you're the only one whose body is on display, not his.