Something that should be spoken about more is how mentally exhausting this can be sometimes. Posting all day and hearing nothing. Getting excited over a DM just for it to be a scammer. Watching everyone else post their payouts while you are having a slow week. Constantly wondering whether your page, prices, or personality are the problem. Then waking up the next day, putting on something cute, and trying again like none of it bothered you. The girls who keep showing up through the quiet days deserve just as much recognition as the girls posting big sends ๐ซ๐ซก๐ฅน๐
I forgot that any time you post a big send all the new Dommes ask you where you found them, so:
1) Iโve been doing this online for 3.5 years and longer in person.
2) I tweet a lot, I share my thoughts, experiences, and media - subs can see my personality.
3) I have a presence on multiple social media platforms - subs can cross check to see that Iโm real.
4) when Dommes answer this question โthey find youโ we arenโt saying this to gatekeep or be rude: genuinely, subs find you. They come out of the woodwork. You just have to keep going, use your brain and post original thoughts, not ai slop or frantically copying whatever else you see other Dommes tweeting. Find your style!! Be confident. Then the subs will find you ๐
5) sometimes you luck out early on and catch a whale, but usually it takes a little time ๐ I got my first 4 digit send about a year after I started. Be patient!
โจ FRIDAY BUYER FINDER โจ
Drop your Throne link below ๐๐ธ
Let buyers discover your wishlist and find something they want to spoil you with this weekend ๐โจ๐