YaLadyBree

Black Lives Matter.

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SHOUT OUT TO ALL MY GAY NIGGAS!! #PrideMonth

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@ireallyhasit @saucyonto @HoopsCrave Lmao what 😭 I know we can read the added context

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola Yes and I’m not denying the context provided from her video. However, to me, it didn’t feel like the response given was.. necessary? More so bc the takeaway from the video (while does include her experience) speaks more to relationships/ partnerships and both parties.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola I’m glad we can agree. Ig I found it odd to focus on her behaviors when he could’ve exhibited some alike. Again a lot of nuance and I can’t assume a lot but these comments do and give misogynistic tendencies…it’s honestly worrying tbh.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola Ok so let me ask then do you agree he is also at fault?

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola 1. Never did and if so, I felt like you completely missed the point.
2. Yes and it’s bc it illustrates that various actions of both individuals behalf can result in harm towards others during a relationship. That’s all.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola And my point is still not being acknowledged so imma leave it here lol.

Regardless, actions like sexual coercion in a relationship should never be accepted or done and people should continue to be held accountable.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola Lmaooo this isn’t a student/teacher relationship where one party is literally a child?? The dynamics are too different to be comparing this situation to a teacher/student one

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola *didn’t want to do and/or want to actively or passively ignore

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola If accountability is a fragile subject for folks or misunderstood, that’s not my issue or package to undo.
But it’s not the burden of everyone else to take up for what you didn’t want to or want to actively ignore.

Take care 😊

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola Yeah bc he is lol unless we can 100% say she is at fault and that her actions SOLELY were the result of the failed partnership. Until then, yeah I can hold both individuals accountable.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola And even if his mistakes are a result of her action, he is an adult. He’s not a child and has made his own mistakes.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola It seems like while we don’t have enough information, there are a lot of assumptions being made. Again, this is not a “blame him” move, but rather why is it hard to understand that accountability should be held on all parties.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola Again, why does it seem as though all actions he took or didn’t take were justified? Its seems as tho this woman is looking back on the relationship and I highly doubt she knew what was about to happen and same for him. However u can still be held liable for past damage done.

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Capitalism got us asking the wrong questions and having the wrong discussions about every situation.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola She mentioned emotional infidelity on behalf of her husband from these circumstances. She’s holds some responsibility 100% but not all. It’s ignorant to ignore how experiences like mothering or transactional seggs exist but he had no role in cultivating that feeling, right?

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @trickdidi @Hybrid_Ola “Give him blame” no. We can hold both parties accountable. Unfortunate, we really don’t know his perspective. But nuance and complexities can exist in relationships and it’s troubling seeing how many folks really can’t understand that.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@trickdidi @Sagaciousjc @Hybrid_Ola Seems like they could’ve worked it out with therapy. I agree she could’ve communicated, bt it’s also about ppl being receptive to it. Still can’t fully absolve him from this either bc 1. Idk his pov or how he felt 2. Relationships can be very complex and the fault of both ppl.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@Sagaciousjc @Hybrid_Ola Just curious, didn’t it take two to form this relationship? If there’s accountability for her, also show some for him bc yes, he does play a role in the ending of it as well.

[YaLadyBree @BreeS1414]

@shakalabuzzy @shewatchestrash @Hybrid_Ola I’m kinda curious, did we watch the same video 😂? To me, this was not the message I was receiving. It seems like alot of nuance (also a lost pov on the husband’s behalf) that shouldn’t result in her being the only one at fault….they both were in it.