STOP LETTING PPL PLAY IN YOUR FUCKING FACE JUST BECAUSE YOU GOT A FORGIVING HEART‼️🗣️💯Some people ain't sorry for what they did… they're sorry they gotta apologize to get access to you AGAIN. 😮💨 They know you'll forgive them, so they keep crossing the same boundaries because there are NEVER any consequences. AT SOME POINT, YOU AIN'T TEACHING THEM FORGIVENESS… YOU'RE TEACHING THEIR ASS HOW MANY TIMES THEY CAN FUCK YOU OVER & STILL KEEP YOU‼️🎯
I was the girl who stayed through the no job, no money, no gifts, no dates and the times when he had nothing to offer but himself. I could have left. I could have chosen an easier kind of love, but I stayed because I believed in him, believed in us and believed that one day things would get better. I never needed him to have everything figured out. I just wanted to build something meaningful together. I wanted my loyalty to mean something, to know that when life finally got better for him, he would remember the girl who stood beside him when it didn’t. Maybe that’s what hurts the most. I wasn’t asking for a perfect man or a perfect life. I was willing to grow with him, struggle with him and love him through seasons when we had very little. I just never imagined that after giving so much of my heart, I would be the one left trying to put it back together. I didn’t leave when he had nothing. I stayed because I believed in what we could become. And it breaks my heart that the love I was willing to build from the ground up still ended up destroying me.
I don’t play about embarrassment. I don’t play about public humiliation. Don’t ever put me in a position where people can laugh at me, judge me, or have something to say about me. If we’re together... partner or friend our ups and downs are PRIVATE. We might forgive each other, but outsiders don’t forget. It’s not just what you did, it’s HOW you did it. Once you hand my enemies anything to gossip about, it’s over. Everything you say or do after that is questionable.
I don’t want an apology. I want you to experience the exact situation you put me through so you can understand how it feels to be on the receiving end of your own actions. I wonder if you would still think it was okay if you were the one losing sleep, questioning your worth, overthinking everything and trying to heal from something you never deserved. It’s easy to dismiss someone’s pain when you’re not the one carrying it. It’s easy to say “I’m sorry” when you don’t have to live with the consequences of what you did. I don’t want revenge. I just wish you could understand the weight of the pain you made me carry.
Y’all make it seem so wrong when a woman is vulnerable , hurting , crying , sad , emotional , etc. & it’s fucked up . That’s why females act so hard cause other females made it seem like you’re a weak bitch if you show any emotions . Tf happened to empathy . Everybody can’t be tough
If you lie about someone, falsely label them, and manipulate what really happened, don't be surprised when karma turns up on the other side of that. You don't get to do ugly things to people and then expect to keep living a beautiful life.