The one time you break rules to accommodate people, you end up finding out why you shouldnโt have done that in the first place, in a rather harsh manner. People move funny out here
Yesterday a guy in my replies said,
โCharisma cannot be learnedโ
It breaks my fucking heart because that dude probably believes that with full conviction.
Understand - the mind is a powerful thing. Even though what he said is not factual, for him, in his realityโIT IS.
Tragic.
I HATE seeing people suffer from imaginary problems.
Itโs like that Henry Ford quote:
โWhether you believe you can or you canโt, youโre RIGHT!โ
Donโt cuck yourself out of opportunity.
Everything can be learned.
In low trust environments, be polite and cordial, yet brief. Minimise attack surface: share little personal information. Ignore provocations and be unprovocative. Be unopinionated. Express uncertainty when pressed. Do not emote. Avoid attachments. You are there, but not present.
You will have a gaming phase.
You will have a muscle phase.
You will have a clout phase.
You will have a money phase.
You will have a girlfriend phase.
You will get heartbroken and then you will enter one final phase
that lasts until your dying breath.
Female genius is more impressive than the maleโs, simply because it is that much rarer. It is brilliance within the feminine vessel, and the interplay of tension filled contradictions between the masculinising intellect and the feminine soul is a fascinating interplay to behold.