In life you must teach yourself to finish what you started.
If you leave things incomplete. Your whole life will be that. Ngathi umkhokha that follows you.
i don't know who needs to hear this but your ability to create the reality that you want is directly determined by your willingness to experience its opposite.
- saving money will have you feeling broke while it's actually making you rich.
- setting boundaries will have you feeling alone while you're creating new healthy relationships in your life.
- digging up your trauma will have you feeling broken while it's actually healing you.
- working out has you feeling weak while it's really making you strong.
- learning something new makes you feel dumb while it's making you more intelligent.
your ability to attain the thing that you want is directly correlated with how willing you are to experience its opposite. you have to be ok with being uncomfortable to truly achieve success!
I don't judge nobody, because I know what it's like to thug it out in silence. To wake up drained but still handle your business. To feel alone around people who swear they love you. To go ghost instead of venting, people used what you told them before against you. To keep everything bottled up and still move like everything is good. I've been through things I don't even speak on... but I keep going like I ain't been through nothing😌