You can see the hurt in his eyes. Gents, we can do better. A child shouldn’t have to grow up carrying the pain of an absent father. Be present. Be there. Your children need more than your money, they need you.
Being in a healthy relationship made me understand why people become more private when they’ve found their person. It’s not because they’re hiding the relationship. It’s because they finally have something that feels so secure, genuine and peaceful that it doesn’t need to be explained or validated by anyone else. When you’re truly happy, you stop needing everyone to know about it.
Some women are just so lucky. Imagine having four children and still getting married with a traditional lobola paid for you.
Meanwhile, I only have one child, yet i cant seem to find a man who wants to settle down and pay lobola for me. 😭😭😭💔