i think it's unappealing when someone can sexualize me and offer me sex all day, but can't actually be there for me mentally and offer an emotional safe space. it's giving me leach/parasite type energy.
Never teach a man how to be your man. Don't ask him for anything. Not a date. Not flowers. Not clingy texts. Not morning calls. Not time. Not affection. When a man truly wants you, he moves different on his own. Life is too short to be waiting for someone to ACT right??
sometimes i accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through and that is a habit i need to let go of expeditiously
Men really get upset when you verbalize how you'd like to be loved. Sir, no one said you have to be the man to love me. If I say I love flowers and I want my doors open and you view those as a chore more than a gesture.
It's simple...Move
When people don't consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There's actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
I don’t think people truly understand how unattractive a man who is controlled by his dick is. If sexual pleasure is such a huge driving force for you that it can up and destroy entire parts of your life you are severely broken and I wish u healing lol.