@TWLadyGrey @silentduck34@production922@Indiawaltonbflo Agreed that universities are a large part of the problem. But while we can keep blaming a large part of the nation for being uneducated in regards to financial responsibility, it’s better to acknowledge that the education loan system is not working like it used to.
@silentduck34@production922 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo The basis of your argument is that I should have been better versed in finances and financial responsibility at that age & known not to trust a private lender. Can you then acknowledge that people should be wary of private lenders for a reason and maybe that can be regulated?
@JJBigHorn @production922 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo The basis of your argument is that I should have been better versed in finances and financial responsibility at that age & known not to trust a private lender. Can you then acknowledge that people should be wary of private lenders for a reason and maybe that can be regulated?
@FDR_LBJ_JRB@Bird_Dog_703 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo Yes, but I reiterate, my monthly payment was concealed from me & it is crushing. People bitch about less. Look around- it is a crisis. We aren’t buying homes, getting married, or having children like we used to. Things can be better & it’s viable that there’s a fair solution.
@FDR_LBJ_JRB@Bird_Dog_703 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo Also, nowhere have I mentioned Biden or asked for money. We’re having completely different conversations & you’re projecting.
@FDR_LBJ_JRB@Bird_Dog_703 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo Yes. Innocence, nativity and idealism are a part of youth. That’s the problem with predatory lending. I messed up in the pursuit of trying to do what I thought was the best thing for myself. Life does have consequences- but the consequences are disproportionate here.
@LovetheUSA73 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo No need for low blows. I do take responsibility for my choices. However, it’s intolerable to think I could have avoided so much physical and mental distress had I not pursued higher education. I hope that can change & fair laws will be implemented to regulate lending.
@LovetheUSA73 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo You might want to check out my other conversations on this thread. I know that naïveté is what got me here; teenagers are, in fact, naïve. That’s the issue with predatory lending. I knew I would have to pay back my loans, but the obscene monthly amount was concealed from me.
@TWLadyGrey @Bird_Dog_703@Indiawaltonbflo LadyGrey, do you mean to keep replying to me? I know you want to be helpful, but I’ve already stated that IBR is not an option in my case. I can’t afford to make less than I do now at a nonprofit. I’ll figure things out, but I’ve been pretty successfully cornered in that regard.
@Bird_Dog_703 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo Also, frankly- and I know now that this is untrue- when I was that age, the undertone of community college was that it was for lazy students with poor GPAs who could not get accepted at universities. Generally seen as a failure.
@Bird_Dog_703 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo Seven years ago, every adult in my life told me that the loan payments would be manageable as that had been their own experience & reality. I did not willingly sign up for loans I knew I could not afford. Think- be reasonable. Innocence & ignorance got me here, not stupidity.
@Bird_Dog_703 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo I was a teenager through my first three years of college. Why does it upset you that much? I pay my loans but they are oppressive. Have love for your people & hope that the debt crises can be improved.
@Bird_Dog_703 @TWLadyGrey @Indiawaltonbflo Step back and think more deeply. Do you really, truly think I should be punished & financially stripped indefinitely for making what I thought and was told was the best & most responsible decision as a young teenager? I’m not the only one. Love your people, hope for some relief.