nobody wants to hear this but the second you stop checking that page is when you’ll start getting over it. its hard to break the habit, but i promise the second i stopped looking was when i stopped fixating & finally started to be happy. protect your peace & stop looking!
every man ive ever met (platonic & romantic) has turned out to be incredibly disappointing. this is not an exaggeration. no matter how sweet, or progressive or well rounded they seem as first, they always eventually do something so incredibly disappointing that i cannot get over
The worst PAIN is being in NO CONTACT with the person you're still in love with, who at one point in time, sent you texts that would make your heart melt. And now, you can only love them in silence from distance. Slowly being forced to close a chapter you never wanted to end.
A narcissist ngga will make sure everybody OUTSIDE the house think he the realest dude alive. Always smiling, always helping folks, always tryna be the hero where people can see it. But behind closed doors? He a cold, dismissive, emotionally draining, ngga that treat the ones who love him the worst. Baby, he don’t care about being a good man… he care about LOOKING like one. That image mean way more to him than his actual character.
things I've learned don't mean anything:
-sleeping together
-meeting their family
-no protection
-talking about the future
- calling for hours
-"I love you"