I’m such a "thank you so much" typa girl because i understand that nobody is obligated to do anything for me, so i'll always appreciate the people who choose to show up for me.!
i'm the person who says "for what?" when someone apologizes because some people say sorry just to shut you up. i want you to acknowledge exactly what you did
Raven-Symoné saying That’s So Raven wasn’t a Black show is crazy asf 😭 You had a baldheaded Black daddy, a mama with locs AND you had VISIONS… girl, bffr 😭😭😭
someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more
Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
let your final act of love be the silence that they always wanted. no more begging for their time, replies or effort. step back and let them feel the space where your love used to be. and you, heal.