Marriage isn't just about cooking, cleaning, and church.
If your husband is sexually starved, you're failing at the most basic level of submission.
His happiness matters. Take care of his needs in the bedroom.
Give him sex regularly!
A lot of modern women want the authority to deny sex indefinitely without ever discussing the damage that does to masculine confidence, marital closeness, and long-term fidelity.
LADY WE TALKED TO RECENTLY: "Personally, I've learned in my 27 years of marriage, that when I regularly have sex with my husband, he's more open with me, he communicates better, he goes out of his way to serve me and he meets my needs. AND, it’s not because he feels obligated … but it's because he feels closely connected to me when are regularly making love. Why would I NOT want all this in my marriage? Having sex with my husband blesses me inside and outside the bedroom."
US: Well said. I’m glad you get it, because many couples don’t.
(FYI: This was from a lady who has a healthy marriage and sex life for 25+ years.)
Too many modern wives want their husband to remain sexually disciplined, loyal, and affectionate while being consistently denied the one woman he vowed himself to.
That arrangement breeds resentment.
A husband wanting sexual access to his wife is not some vulgar surprise add-on. It is one of the most natural and foundational expectations of marriage.
Lack of sex in the marriage destroys the marriage; there is nothing on earth that can cover that void.
Lack of sex brings resentment
Lack of sex brings hatred
Lack of sex brings poverty/hardship
Lack of sex brings cheating/betrayal
Lack of sex brings constant quarrels
Lack of sex brings unnecessary disagreements/arguments
The day your spouse starts denying you sex or rejecting you constantly, this simply means the person has checked out emotionally, mentally and sexually and there is nothing you can do to change it.
You can't be comfortable sharing it while dating and restricting it in marriage; it's an abomination.
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Sex is the one thing that separates your wife or girlfriend from every other relationship in your life.
Without it, you have a coparent.
A roommate.
A business partner.
A friend.
But sex is what makes it romantic.
It’s what makes it exclusive.
It’s what makes it yours.
And when that part of the relationship is strong, everything else tends to get stronger too.
Couples who are deeply connected sexually are usually more patient, more playful, more united, and more willing to work as a team.
They handle stress better.
They resolve conflict better.
They parent better.
They enjoy each other more.
A strong sex life does not fix everything.
But a dead one quietly breaks more than people want to admit.
It matters that much.
My coworker said he stayed with his friend for 7 months while trying to look for a job.
His friend billed him $900 rent... he paid $1,000 just to play his part.
When it was time to leave, his friend handed him $7,000—every dollar he paid.
He told him, “I never needed it. I just wanted you to stack your money and get ahead.”
That’s love. That’s loyalty. Helping someone win without making them feel small.
We need more hearts like that in this world.
Many marriages are sexless, leaving people unfulfilled. But even for those staying married, many lack the intimacy and connection they desire. This is especially true for our predominantly male audience: why are women hesitant to be accountable?
If you deny your husband sex at home, don’t act surprised when he finds it elsewhere. Marriage isn’t just paperwork, sex, intimacy, and exclusivity are part of the deal. Ignore or weaponize it and you’re inviting trouble.
A lot of couples have a dead bedroom. No sex to be seen. But if you’re AT LEAST getting sex on Valentines Day, anniversary, or your birthday, LEAVE. You should have left already, but if you haven’t yet, LEAVE.
Remove sex from a relationship, and you will discover that 90% of women have nothing to offer men in relationships.
Conversely, remove money from a relationship, and you will learn that 90% of women won't see a reason to be in said relationship.