Vaniza⚡️

Don’t fashion me into a maiden that needs saving from a dragon. I am the dragon.

[Vaniza⚡️ @Buckle_It_Up]

About time.

[billy chapata. @iambrillyant]

i no longer hold space for anything that shrinks the room for me to be myself, i no longer allow my authenticity to be held hostage by people who are triggered by my truth, i no longer silence the parts of me that deserve a voice; i release it all to see myself more clearly.

[Vaniza⚡️ @Buckle_It_Up]

Celebrating my small wins alone tonight because nobody else cares and I’ve got no one.🤷🏻‍♀️💕

[☔ @Whotfismick]

The worst feeling is getting home and realizing you were only okay because you were distracting yourself

[𝓲𝓬𝓮 @be_like_ice]

When I forget to keep my mind busy and suddenly get a flashback of everything I survived.

[🎀 @lilmissnothoein]

Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.

[Vaniza⚡️ @Buckle_It_Up]

Stop comparing your “behind-the-scenes” to other people’s “highlight reels”.

[໊ @cdoll]

“2026 is gonna be my year”

Me in March:

[feelings ღ @eternaltxts]

the urge to quit everything and just fucking die

[Nunnie The G @NunnieTheG]

I used to tolerate a lot because I ain’t wanna lose people…but now YOU can go.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

funny how people force you to unlove them

[Vaniza⚡️ @Buckle_It_Up]

Y E S ❗️❗️❗️

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

My therapist told me this, and it changed my life: “You're not healing to be able to handle trauma, pain, anxiety, depression. You're used to those. You're healing to be able to handle joy and to accept happiness back into your life.”

[𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖙𝖊𝖉 @6looted]

That moment when you realise having a good heart hasn’t gotten you nowhere but made you look stupid

[Riċ @ricblurs]

i want people to unknow me

[ebby ᥫ᭡. @luvshqrks]

sometimes you gotta give up on people. not because you don’t care. but because they don’t.

[Bri @Datsme147]

when you realize people do weird and evil things to get a reaction out of you, you learn that silence is more powerful than proving a point.

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

I don't mind struggling with you, but I'll be damned if I'm struggling because of you.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

Maturing is realising no amount of chemistry will outweigh the slow erosion of your sanity when you’re dating someone who hasn’t fully chosen you. It’s reminding yourself “I don’t care how great it feels now. I care how safe it feels later.”

[𝕁𝕁 @marsfirelight]

nothing sexier than two people actively learning to be fluent in each other’s love language.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

This Guy said, “The better you love a woman, the more she’ll whisper your name into God’s ear.”
And honestly? That’s kingdom talk right there.

[𝐁𝐈𝐆 𝐌𝐎 … @JaYunnaMonae]

Respectfully, I do not go above and beyond for people like i use to anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me. I spent a long time overextending myself and feeling like I’m forcing bonds with people. I need reassurance and reciprocation 🤌🏽