Doing this is what genuinely shifted my confidence and self concept. I woke up one day and got tired of feeling insecure and being a victim to my own mental prison. I realized it was all just coming from me. And i realized if I created it, it means I can change it too.
I think people are very uncomfortable with the interiority of their partner. And I get that it’s scary that you can never truly completely know what’s in another person’s heart and mind. The fact remains that people are whole individual people with an inner world including desire