his perspective on. Now, I actively seek his perspective. I respect his faith, his work ethic and his knowledge. I understand a lot about how he makes decisions, how he responds to challenges and he has shown me that he's a man who makes mistakes, but
Your imperfect work might be the breakthrough someone else is praying for.
So put it out there. Get feedback. Improve. START. And keep practicing! You will grow as you go. And the people you're called to serve grow when you show up.
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You want to be his safe place?β¨Then study him. Learn how he expresses himself and why.β¨Respect him even when itβs hard.β¨Listen even when itβs not talking.
You can't help your husband grow into the man God created him to be if you only focus on how you feel.
My husband and I will be married for 7 years on February 17th π It's been a beautiful journey of a lot of trial and error! I've been learning how to love my husband the way he needs it without letting my fears get in the way! The advice I would give my younger self is:
(Although he probably could do some things differently to improve in every situation.)
But focusing energy and attention on that won't help US get better as wives.
Do you feel me!!!???
My husband and I will be married for 7 years on February 17th π It's been a beautiful journey of a lot of trial and error, learning how to love my husband the way he needs it without letting my fears get in the way! The advice I would give my younger self is:
We need someone to help us understand what's going on in our hearts that's causing us to feel offended, distrusting or angry and help us heal! We don't need someone to focus on what our husbands need to do to make the situation better.