I've never liked involving third parties in my relationships. The more people you bring into your private matters, the more opinions you'll have to manage.
Some conversations are best kept between the two people committed to making it work.
If your partner wrongs you, don’t be too quick to tell your friends and family. If you eventually forgive your partner, the people you told may not.
Sometimes, the reason you’re still holding a grudge isn’t because you don’t want to forgive your partner. It’s because you don’t want to disappoint the people who have been telling you that you deserve better and have been holding that grudge on your behalf.
I’m not saying you should suffer in silence, but it doesn’t have to be cho cho cho every time.
The food and restaurant scene.
There are so many beautiful restaurants and cafés in Abuja, and I love that there's always somewhere new to try. From fine dining to little hidden gems, there's no shortage of good food and beautiful places to eat.
Honestly? God, movies, music, the gym, solitude, and a few people who make life feel a little lighter.
Sometimes you just learn to carry the weight quietly and keep moving.
It's selfish to enter someone's life, enjoy their love and kindness, and then hurt them because you haven't dealt with your own issues.
Stop making good people pay for wounds they didn’t cause. If you're not ready to show up sincerely, have the decency to leave people alone.