I’d be disgusted to my bone marrow if I came home to a woman whose life goal is to “take care of the home”.
There should be more to your existence than cleaning, cooking, fucking, getting pregnant and nurturing kids.
No matter how successful I got, my wife would still active engage her brains in profitable or charitable work.
I’m a very patient man!!!
If I were a single man approaching middle age, I wouldn’t spend my time telling people that marriage is shit or that women ain’t shit. For one, those are unnecessary lies; for another, they’re resentment-driven poison to the soul. That said, I’d remain sceptical of commitment in societies increasingly hostile to men and family life. My middle age would be devoted to the simplest and finest things within my reach, while I pursued side quests worthy of a man—goals so ambitious they might just kill him.
Both of you deserve each other.
Egotistical, anti-intellectual, dickhead men + egotistical, insufferable, predatory women.
Rock + Hard Place. Unstoppable force + Immovable object.
May the bigger asshole win.
As a partner to somebody and parent to somebody, some things should naturally give you joy to do.
Looking after your child. Giving your child a bath, changing nappies, feeding them, playing/spending time with them. Driving them to school. You should be happy to cook for your family, you should clean up your home, you live in it with your family. You should be happy to drive your partner to the airport to bid them off and be happy to pick them up. If you have one car, you should be happy to drop them off at work and pick them up - in view of convenience. You should be happy to invest your finances to the family so you can pay bills conveniently and plan your investments together. The list is endless but being marriage simply means doing life together. It is a merger not an adoption or acquisition.
You need to do away with that "you're a man" and "you're a woman" nonsense. You're an adult and adulthood comes with personal responsibility. You are somebody's wife/husband and that comes with responsibility. You're somebody's parent and that comes with responsibility.
Being a woman is not an excuse to be financially useless in the family. Being a man is not an excuse why you cannot give your baby a bath and change nappies. All of these things should naturally happen with joy. You should be able to do these things individually as a bachelor and spinster, so when you commit to each other, you do them together.
Marriage is not rocket science. You are just deliberately evil to your partner and irresponsible to your home.
As a partner to somebody and parent to somebody, some things should naturally give you joy to do.
Looking after your child. Giving your child a bath, changing nappies, feeding them, playing/spending time with them. Driving them to school. You should be happy to cook for your family, you should clean up your home, you live in it with your family. You should be happy to drive your partner to the airport to bid them off and be happy to pick them up. If you have one car, you should be happy to drop them off at work and pick them up - in view of convenience. You should be happy to invest your finances to the family so you can pay bills conveniently and plan your investments together. The list is endless but being marriage simply means doing life together. It is a merger not an adoption or acquisition.
You need to do away with that "you're a man" and "you're a woman" nonsense. You're an adult and adulthood comes with personal responsibility. You are somebody's wife/husband and that comes with responsibility. You're somebody's parent and that comes with responsibility.
Being a woman is not an excuse to be financially useless in the family. Being a man is not an excuse why you cannot give your baby a bath and change nappies. All of these things should naturally happen with joy. You should be able to do these things individually as a bachelor and spinster, so when you commit to each other, you do them together.
Marriage is not rocket science. You are just deliberately evil to your partner and irresponsible to your home.
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