Achievement is an interactive process beginning with action and ending with action, with calibrated adjustments in between until the objective is earned. It’s more productive to course correct based on a previous result than to sit static and try to plan for perfection in your head, before taking even a first step.
As someone who has managed people for a long time, show the fuck up on time each and every day, stay away from the “gossip girls” (males or females) that lurk in every organization, say good morning or hello to everyone (but especially your higher ups - don’t be a fucking psycho looking emo), and if you want to advance, learn what those people do and start dipping your toe in their world, practice their skills, develop a people management tool belt that has more in it than just a hammer (because managing people is always the hardest part of any role), keep your promises and commitments always, communicate effectively and get shit done. You’ll set yourself up for potential success in a better way!
Bro may be getting some sloppy good head from the sista as the pic implies, but you know he’s eyeing big red next up while he’s getting it. A man will continue to want another as long as that’s the stage he’s at. He’s got to burn it out of his system first, truly realize the vanity of the pump and dump lifestyle, and decide deep in his soul that he wants more (tradeoffs to that domesticated life accepted). Until then, everyone in that picture is going different directions.
@theblaze To “repair” the harm that was done, US should’ve shipped everyone back in the Reconstruction period to where they and/or their ancestors came from. To do otherwise and try and bandaide this and snake oil that away has proved to be a failure.
Assuming what she says is even remotely true, outside of most mothers and ladies in love, majority of women are easy targets to vilify. Even women know this of each other! On the whole, they are duplicitous, fickle, moody, cliquey, weak leaders, terrible at making decisions and vulnerable to emotional delusion, to name a few. Generally, they are extraordinary, though, at multitasking and suicidal empathy, I’ll give them that.