Rita Bee 🌸

FinTech babe | Gym girlie | Governor and Purveyor of the ✨soft 💫life ✨

[Rita Bee 🌸 @Bummiey]

3 years in! 🎉🥳

From imposter syndrome to leading cross-functional initiatives with confidence.

Grateful for the growth, grit and every challenge that sharpened my skills.

Here’s to building better systems, teams and outcomes.

And also to more work trips 😂

[Mr. Akyeampong @MrAkyeampong]

You’re African you must be supporting South Africa

Ghanaians :

[Laura Kirk-Francis @LauraKirk12]

May God release me from AI images of Nigel Farage on Question Time

[ @Patralekha2011 পত্রলেখা চ্যাটার্জী @patralekha2011]

Wasn’t aware that China passed a law banning arranged marriage, part of a social engineering project to free women from cultural shackles so that they could contribute more to the economy. You can argue that this instrumentalises women. It does. But the end result - more agency and far more choices. Economic and social.

[Dee Macé @frmarcellinus]

After some initial years of "freedom", you realise that there's an emptiness that only God can fill.

[erika @yeeeerika]

the human spirit was not designed for this many passwords

[Ifeoluwa @olajumokeokenla]

Until he starts billing you for food and asking for £200 every week..
The one my friend dated borrowed £600 from her and didn’t pay back until she took him to court 😂

[lau @archonchan]

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[Rita Bee 🌸 @Bummiey]

The community of women I’ve built around me???? Come rain or sunshine they full ground. God sent angels I’m forever grateful for ✨💫

[SisiYėmmié.com 🌶 @Sisi_Yemmie]

Why are Nigerians obsessed with “forgiveness” ? They are willing to ask others to forgive the most heinous of crimes - there’s no space for consequences.

[Emeka Sepi Maduka @Sepiyoung]

@KaiUzama If your leadership requires absolute blind faith and zero accountability, you aren’t looking for a wife. You are looking for a subordinate.

[Zack D. Films @zackdfilms1]

Why Horses Wear Blinkers 😨

[Oiza @Steadi_lady]

This week is too sweet for Nigerian women! 🤣

From some useless married men being publicly disgraced, to a banger boy ending up in prison.

We just dey chop, dey chop! 💀

[Donald @RealDonaldDoo]

Marry someone who the Holy Spirit can speak with and they’ll listen.

Not Sunday Christians.

[Moe @Mochievous]

Women in male dominated fields usually do dominate the field. I love it actually

[Lady Morgana @Nigladymorgana]

Everyday on this app I realize I go tey for house.

You want to torture me with silence keh???
Me that kept malice with my mother for 3 days without even touching her food even water at 12yrs old???
It didn’t even help that I was a weak child,I preferred dying
I was staggering but I refuse to say a word to her till she apologized,I’ll mute you like you don’t exist!!

You want to not eat my food???
Me when first lazy,no more cooking

You want to send me to my father’s house?😂😂😂😂 the fathers house where my uncle went to return bride price after 3months because the new husband was maltreating her????
Mind you she married at 32!!!

Threaten me with divorce,my lawyers will reach you first🫠
Marriage when I no first send

I’ll treat a good man right but if you can’t talk about issues like a grown adult then miss me with those tantrums,loneliness doesn’t scare me

[musashi @scabberslosttoe]

they bloom regardless

[Deborah Ocheido @d_ocheido]

I was 16 years old when this photo was taken. This was the first time I would “go out” with a male. It was a secondary school class mate

My mum was aware

Not only was she aware but we picked out my dress and did my hair together

I told her that a boy wanted to take me out and she said “sure, go and sit and gist”

This is how I was raised

And I personally believe that this was the main reason why I grew up chaste and did not make dumb mistakes as a growing young woman

Because my mum was my friend. She knew when to be a mother and when to be a big sis. When to be my bestie

Every man that spoke to me , my mum knew

I did not have have hide

I did not have to pretend

She told me I would like boys and that it was totally fine. But that it was like a plant I could nurse till it grows into something sinful, or I could quash it

She told me about sex

She told me outside marriage it wasn’t worth it and would just leave heartbroken and waste my time

She told me EVERYTHING.

You could not tell me anything new.

We gisted about boys.

She shared her own experiences growing up with me

She trusted me enough to send me out to meet a boy and not do anything foolish and come back home.

We grew up conservative but my mum made sure I made decisions by myself and understood the “why” behind the rules.

She taught me about consequence

She taught me about how that Gods way is always best

You could not deceive me

You could not lie to me and tell me rubbish

Mumsy was always ten steps ahead

The woman that I am today, I owe to my mother.

I hope more mothers, especially Christian mothers understand how to tow this delicate line

May God help us.

[Chukwuedozie Nwa Charlie @TheCharlesIsidi]

In Hannah Arendt's Banality of Evil, there's this part it talks about a Jew who had gone through the holocaust, he came into the room as a witness against Adolf Eichmann, one of the executors of the final solution.

When he got in, he saw the man and fainted. When asked later...