@lullabystarlust I genuinely can’t do my hair that well, but I do the same, and I’m not insecure; I just hate struggling with my hair. But all in consternation asid, I call my nappy because my aunt call it that. I just wanted to share my comment. Um, but I don't get the yn.
I say this every time, every fandom has those toxic or horrible people who just ruin it for everyone, but sometimes I just got to move forward with it because I can't do anything about it.