@simikunleoni Most Asia countries do not have to worry about this, most especially Japan. This is based on information gotten through research and nothing else.
Hot take, but the real problem is marrying a visionless and passionless man.
Let me explain
One thing I tell my female friends who in the dating market is this
Marry someone who has a purpose that pulls him out of bed, not someone who's responsibilities pull him out if bed
The only reason why a woman would feel unfulfilled, is that she doesn't see any purpose that her husband is chasing, that she can be a part of.
The bat couples are the ones who have a shared goal of what the world needs to look like, and you can see them pursuing it.
And before you think I mean some grand plan like "Make 1 billion before 2027", it can be something as small as "Help young teenagers know Jesus" or "Reduce hunger among the children in my local church"
Or even "ensure that my church has great sound"
No matter the size and scope of the vision, the important thing is that:
1. The man believes in it irratonally and pursues it with real intent
2. The woman understands that vision and wants to see it as reality.
Note that the woman doesn't necessarily need to even be a part of that vision. She can have her own ambition, but the very act of seeing your man going the extra mile for his dream will light a fire in you.
There is nothing more sexy and fulfilling watching a man or a woman pursuing their passion with doggedness.
If you think I'm lying just imagine this:
"Your man is in charge of some charity event that he genuinely believes in.
It's 2am and he's stressing over something related to the project, maybe writing a proposal or organising the order of program. You wake up to pee and see him quietly working at the dining table.
He's tired and dozing off, but he is pushing himself to finish it.
How does that make you feel?
Remember he's not getting paid o. Just pure passion and love.
That's what lights a fire in your woman.
She wants to see you win, and she wants to win too.
Whether it's by working with you on the project or starting her own.
The fire of passion is contagious.
The real problem, is that no one is passionate again
Ask the average woman what her man is passionate about and you either here "nothing", or a vision that is totally self-serving.
We need more passsionate people.
Day 3 of fixing user activation for an early-stage startup.
After researching the market and combining the insights into a positioning and messaging doc, it was time to apply what I had learned.
So, I put on my copywriter's hat and reviewed their current landing page.....
AND GOOD LORD!
It was horrible.
Like 2010 web design horrible.
What's more, the page was trying to do two different jobs at once and failing at both.
It was trying to explain who they WERE as a company (i.e their manifesto) and also dive deep into the features that they had.
You can't do both on the same page. The tone is different, the structure is different, the CTA is different.
Everything is different.
Here's a quick summary of what I actually did:
- Audited the existing landing page. The design and copy felt like a pre-2010 European government contractor website. Too much text
- I built 2 new homepages.
The first was a main homepage that focused on their corporate identity and how they are changing the category. That's what you see when you Google the company
- Built a 2nd separate problem-specific landing page for their individual users.
The core insight I built around was simple:
"You're not losing clients because you lack skill. You're losing them because clients can't verify your credibility and as such, don't trust you to do the work"
Instead of the former cluttered dashboard with a million buttons, I built a 6-step activation flow that gets users from signup to their "aha moment" in under 3 minutes.
The core insight was that you can request a review from a client, and rather than get a generic "she was great to work with", you get a detailed review that outlines exactly what you did, and what results you generated
So, I had to do copywriting, product design, and a bit of product ownership.
I used Claude to brainstorm the logic, built the landing pages and flows in @stitchbygoogle (got an almost perfect UI btw), then moved it to Figma for the devs to implement.
All in 2 days.
If you want me to do a breakdown of how I used Google Stitch to go from spec to near-perfect UI in minutes, RT and comment "Stitch" and I'll make it.
See you tomorrow for Day 4.
The client we recruited interns for last year has requested another batch for this year.
They pay 200k.
Students in 400–500 level can also apply.
Stay tuned as we drop the application link.